You're not kidding around, are you? Gruffer! Oh goodness, no.

It's not that you came across as wacky per se--merely wackier than your internet persona is by itself. But it's a relative thing: in absolute terms, you came across as just wacky enough for me to believe you might--might-- be capable of True Wackiness. But it was also plenty easy for me to see your "Brutal Women" persona brewing around under there as well.

But take away the wackiness, and all you've got left is aloof. Aloof + Brutal = Unapproachable. And what good is that?